There's no real difference between flying a light aircraft and a quadcopter. If conditions are beyond maximums, stay on the ground. I can't count the number of times I've read "it wouldn't come down...it just kept climbing". These things will only crank themselves over so far to try and maintain their position. Then they may then start to pour on the power to try and get back to where they think they need to be. I don't know 100% that this is the case...I'm not the programmer. More power with a limited amount to pitch/roll is going to equal lift, and that's all there is to it. Couple that with an updraft and by-by toy. Personally, 10mph wind on the ground is my limit.
For most of us, these things are a substantial investment...forget the safety issues with having one going out of control. I'd rather stay on the ground today and fly tomorrow, rather than make an unsafe flight today and never fly it again. Always remember....ground conditions are rarely the same as conditions at altitude. Besides being the son of a long time private pilot, I'm also a heavy equipment tech. I often have to function test aerial work platforms (boom lifts). The tallest ones I deal with are 125 ft. Get 60 ft above most of the things that are on the ground and you'll learn very quickly that it doesn't take much altitude to get into some very different conditions.
When flying, better safe than sorry never holds more true.