I can't tell about your connection problem, but the 3.1.8 app will ONLY show the phantom wifi datas as it was yet not possibile to switch between 2.4 and 5ghz.
...well, to be fully honest it's no longer possible if dji don't solve this bug!
But nevermind...
All I can say we finally can fly this nice phantom 3 SE SAFELY, without all the disconnectiong due to poor signal and that's great!
This is just a momentary solution, I'm already trying to find a way to modify the actual app to avoid the wlan window but I'm bit more "rusted" than I thought in computer programming! lol!
It shouldn't be very difficult if someone more experienced (and less "rusted") than me can take a look and compar 1.3.8 code with 1.3.23 code.
I still have to try with the 1.5.40 firmware, but it seems very clear all depends on the app... I'm sorry, but after all the things I've tryed today I just wanted to fly! lol!
What I can say is that, finally, it's been easy to have the drone follow a river with tree between us, even a low hill, with no signal loss!
I've been able to fly 1200 meters too in another place and I still had full signal (no weack video signal message), and it's an important thing not for the distance, but because I could only reach 1000 meters there when I checked the drone for the first times (before 1.5.40 firmware) and that confirm what I already suspected: the 2.4ghz frequency grant bigger range!
Can this be reason why we can't use it anymore? Just because DJI did not want a cheap drone to reach what more expensive ones do?
Well, now it's all a matter of time and "programming" to get a better working app!

Thanx everybody for your great help!