Firstly, pleased everyone came out of this without a scratch, including those below your flight path and your sua.
You're taking a little flak here because the rules on flying, practically anywhere in the world, are the same. Fly within sight or at the limit defined by, in your case, FAA. Sure these rules are very limiting but they are in place for good reasons - safety. They protect everyone, you, me and all the innocents on the ground and in the air. If you, and others choose to ignore them then eventually, the whole flying community will suffer. This forum and it's members can only impart guidance, it's up to every pilot to listen, learn and to use commonsense. We all need to learn to fly safely.
Regards your question about real estate, yep, it's tricky. I don't know much about FAA law but here (UK), not being able to fly over or within 50m of people, roads and property is extremely limiting. I think you guys probably have the best of it, you have a lot more space to fly in than we do.
Keep posting Tim but learn from the experience. You've got a good attitude and you've taken people's comments well. We all make mistakes, we all have lots to learn.
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